For some, Valentine’s Day has turned in to “Singles Awareness Day”. Or, for others, it becomes a benchmark for how much your significant other loves or cares about you…I remember last year, I kept checking with the doorman to see when my big bouquet of flowers arrived – they never did, and instead I got a single rose. On the outside, I was happy and appreciative, but on the inside, I found myself saying, “WHAT? Doesn’t this person know that I’d like a whole bouquet?!” YIKES!! Time for a reality check!
Everyone has their own ways of showing how much they love or care, so it’s important to appreciate those ways and be sincerely grateful for them. Furthermore, it’s important to not place expectations on gifts – not only are you setting yourself up to potentially be let down, but you’re also stealing the wonderful moments of being happy and appreciative for whatever gift you did receive.
On the other hand, if you find yourself single, again, it’s time to pour some love on yourself! Check out my 30 Day Workbook (see below) to get a better relationship with your body and yourself. It’s important to celebrate your love for yourself, not just a significant other, on Valentine’s Day.
Don’t be left out! Whether you’re single or attached, do something for yourself or for your body that demonstrates self-love. Buy yourself a bouquet of flowers; buy yourself a massage; spend time reading your favorite book, or do something that makes you feel good about yourself.